A Bowl Of Rice Raises A Benefactor, A Rice Rice Raises An Enemy!

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I have heard of my friend since I heard it from my friend that day. This sentence has been moving in my mind. I have found out the root of a problem that I can not understand for a long time.

The traditional education that is accepted by a small person is to be a man, to talk about loyalty, and to understand the truth of "water dripping with water." therefore, when my friend who loves to help me is away from me, I am depressed and puzzled. Although I can not figure out a reward, I should not be so. What is the truth?

"A bowl of rice raises a benefactor.

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Understanding this sentence makes me suddenly understand: when a person is hungry and cold, you give him a bowl of rice, that is to solve his big problems, he will be grateful.

But if you continue to give him rice, he will take it for granted.

A bowl of rice is not enough, two bowls of rice are not enough, and three bowls or four bowls still feel that you have only given a drop in the ocean. I do not know which book I have ever seen. This is the saying: desire is like sea water, the more you drink, the more thirsty you are.

Desire is actually the itch in your soul.

Pain can be suppressed, but itching is more flexible.

Once upon a time, two families were neighbors.

One of the families is much richer because they are competent.

The two families had no grievances, but this year, the heavens became angry, and the disaster was reduced. Tanaka failed.

The poor family had no harvest, so they had to lie down and wait for death.

At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food, thinking of everyone's neighbors, sent a liter of rice to the poor family, and saved the rush.

The poor family was very grateful to the rich and thought it was a real benefactor. After the hardest time, the poor went to thank the rich.

Talking about the seeds of next year, the rich family said generously: "well, I have a lot of food here, so you can take another fight."

The poor man went home with a bucket of rice.

After returning home, his brother said, what can this rice do? Besides eating, it is simply not enough for our next year's seeds. The rich man is too much. Since you are so rich, you should give us more food and money to give us such a little bit. It's really bad.

The words reached the ears of the rich man. He was very angry. He thought to myself that if I gave you so much food, you would not only thank me but also hate me as an enemy.

So, two people who had a good relationship.

From then on, he became an enemy.

Gentlemen, therefore, this rise to Miln, the enemy of rice is to say that when a person is starving to death, you give him a liter of rice, he will treat you as a benefactor; but if you give him a bucket of rice, he will think, if you can afford a bowl of rice, you can give me more, if you do not give me, then you will become my enemy.

Think of the story of the new world, "there is such a story in the story of the sayings: in the Three Kingdoms, there was a woman named Zhao Ji." before she married, she said, "when you get to your husband's house, you must never do a good job."

The girl asked her mother, "if you don't let me do good deeds, can I do bad things?" the mother immediately said, "good things can't be done, let alone bad things!"

Zhao Ji's remarks are very complicated, both philosophical and moral, and psychological problems.

In his "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Shu Shu", Yu Jiaxi expressed his feelings for Zhao Ji's words. He said: "the meaning of the religious woman of Gu Gu is that he does not want to be cruel when he is in trouble, but he is also in the name of good, so as to attract envy instead of prohibition."

Good deeds can not be done without fear of others being accustomed to doing so, and even think that they should do so naturally.

The most frightening thing is that people who use words are typical of those who do good deeds. They call on everyone to learn. If they do good deeds, they will not come down.

This is the blind spot in our education.

This is often the case in life. When you first offer help to a person, he will be grateful to you. The second time his gratitude will be diluted. After the N, he simply believes that this is what he should do for him. Even without such help, he will resent the helpers.

This is what Chairman Mao said to his old man. It is not difficult for a man to do a good deed, but it is difficult to do good deeds all his life.

A bowl of rice to raise a benefactor, a rice to raise enemies, really help you, you can only be yourself, one person.

A person's understanding is not what others want to give. One's mind and ideas determine what way a person will take. Try to lower yourself to see the world. You will find many things are different. Thanksgiving is always in the mind. Happiness is such a tiny bit.

Knowing this, I feel relieved.

Thank you, my friend, you may not know that you have unlocked a sentence.